The War Against Women is not won becuase it's not faught...

The war against women is not won becuase it's not faught, we are divided by betrayal BUT NOT BEATEN!

WOMEN LEADING CHANGE - By Christine Nixon - if justice is a women than she's it.There is no stronger force than women united in action fighting for change.

The right to equality is not a privillage it's a human right that must be respected.

The Figures that have been responsible for my conclusive report with regards to "The Enslavement of Women in Malta", (which was the topic of the month posted on this site), are much to my disgust; and in my political openion, these figures show a filure to the community by a government that promised it's voters to eradicate all forms of corruption promising to give them a voice without fear. I wasn't the only one who banked on that promise and like many, I am left dissappointed.

Since posting such a contraversial topic for discussion, allowing the people of Malta a voice (in strict confidence), I have discovered the following - which I have not bothered to create a pie chart for, as there is not a page big enough to demonstrate the level of complaints and the seriousness of some of them.

1. Out of over 3000 respondents via email, only 14 were men who all claimed to come home from work and help out around the house, to equally share the workload. Not all 14 men were married but all said that"she"stays at home by choice to raise her own children, which they support - who also admitted that going to work is easier - and that his in come is equally shared. Although it sounds reasonably fair, it should have been more than 14 men, which doesn't even count for half of 3000 odd complaints of women who feel enslaved in their own homes.

2. With regards to my own marriage, I DO NOT CARE TAKE (not men, not the elderly and certainly not other people's children); I gave my husband a clear warning prior to marriage (and gave him ampol time to bail/withdraw if he didn't like it; my standards simply weren't negotiable) that he is marrying an Australian who will not under any circumstances slave around his ass in the home, that he is a grown man with equal responsibility to his own care-taking and unless he is on a wheelchair with a severe disability, he will be doing his own dirty work, which he didn't have a problem with. We were both looking for jobs and so the way we worked it out was that we cleaned the house once every Saturday and split the chores right down the middle. Yes, we had marital problems but housework wasn't one of them - in fact, he enjoyed cooking and cleaned the floors better than me.

3. I had an Auntie Polly who's husband always came home and helped her around the house. She was a very busy teacher here in Malta educating kids with special needs for many years and didn't have time to play house wife; My uncle is a very respectful man and understood that without arguments. Of course my Auntie is no fool for undisciplined men and has high standards with regards to her living arrangements who she is now 70; and he has been contributing to the house hold chores since the beginning of their marriage, so no one in this day and age has any excuise to enslave their life wife who are mothers first and foremost...

4. Not all who gave feedback viewed this website, many found out about my post defending women's legal entitlements to equality, by word of mouth; who passed around my contact information encouraging their friends to reply. Sadly 99% of women who replied feel enslaved in their own homes and all requested their privacy in fear of retaliation, "We've got kids to feed and bills to pay", they tell me and don't want to be seen to be supporting me although privately they do. What has become of this labor government who promised to eradicate all forms of corruption giving PEOPLE OF MALTA A VOICE WITHOUT FEAR? This is the saddest outcome of all, when people are scared to be heard!

5. There are women who have reported being subjected to family violence upon insisting their husbands equally contribute to the household, after all she's holding down a job too and raising the kids. One lady wrote (and she's only 20, married with two kids already), "if dinner is not on the table when he comes home from work, he slams the door and starts putting me down reminding me how much weight I've put on since having the kids..." another lady wrote, "one time he slapped me hard because the bed wasn't made in time for him to get an early night; he told me I should be grateful he pays for everything..." and this is the same lady that said the min. wage is not enough to give her independence from his abuse. THIS IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH LABOR, ONE COMPLAINT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS TOO MANY!!!

6. ...and there are plenty more like this one.

7. My husband Mr Dyer once came home from work and said to me, and he only did it once (while I was eight months pregnant with Kristen and sleeping all day), "where is my dinner, I'm hungry?" and I said "are you just", and he said "yes, I am" and I said, "that's nice" and walked away. Then he called out my name and asked me to organize his dinner so I said "OK baby, let's make you dinner since you appear to have two broken arms". I got out a clean plate and put it in front of him while he was seated at the dinner table with anticipation. I took out a can of baked beans opened it in front of him and tipped it up side down pouring it all out onto the plate in front of him. I politely put the empty can of baked beans in the bin and pointed to the cutlery draw and said, "there you go baby, the forks are in that draw, feel free to help yourself or can eat with your hands." and left. From that day on he did the cooking and I had a perfectly healthy baby because of plenty of rest.

8. There has been an attempt to intimidate me into submission since posting the chatterbohxpress site; a man unknown to me confronted me in the shop entrance after stalking me for a period of time outside before entry; he didn't appreciate his wife's new found idea's to equally contribute to the household and threatened me with his violence. With my fist cocked back ready to break his jaw (should he throw the first punch) I told him to go ahead and make my day. I told him there will be no police involved but he will end up in hospital. He was not stupid enough to throw the first punch, as then I would only be acting in self defense; I was determined to be the last one standing. When he realized that I was not afraid of him, he backed away pretty quickly speaking only profanities, which didn't bother me. This is an obvious display of an inferiority complex that only men with small dick's have.

Because there are so many women afraid to speak up in fear of not being believed, and I have email after email to prove it, I am running the same topic for another month; and also because the complaints are still coming in. I on the other hand will shut up for no one, it is my legal and civil right to fair justice and I won't stop until it's served.

IF THEY CAN'T SPEAK THEN I WILL BE THEIR VOICE - I AM THE ONE!

This post was made at M'Dai Cafeteria this morning from 8am till 3pm, thanks to the Papillon General Manager who feeds me free of charge.